Seduction:
Remember the Basics
There
are a lot of seduction techniques available for study. Many of
them require the development of new skill sets, mastery of formulaic
approaches, and a scripted series of responses. Some of these
techniques, when used correctly can produce truly amazing results.
There is a lot of hype surrounding seduction techniques, but many
of them really do work well and can allow you to get beautiful
women regardless of your age or appearance.
However,
the study of these techniques can draw us into a focus on methodology
that might result in losing track of some of the most basic attributes
of the successful seducer. No matter what system you decide to
use in order to attract spectacular women, there are some basics
that must first become second nature to you. By reiterating some
of these incredibly simple characteristics of the successful seducer,
it is hoped that you will be able to implement your seduction
strategy from a strong basis.
Three of
the basics are so incredibly simple it almost seems foolish, at
first glance, to even bother mentioning them. However, we see
men who time and time again lose track of the fundamentals as
their mind focuses on following a particular seduction strategy.
First, remember
to smile. The best-planned approach in the world will collapse
if the guy implementing it seems unapproachable or unfriendly.
An open smile is inviting to a woman and ups your charisma considerably.
People who smile are perceived as self-confident, trustworthy
and fun to be around—all traits that make your chore as
a seducer that much easier. A pleasant smile will set a woman
at ease and make you seem less threatening and more interesting.
You may be trying to remember if you are at a point where you
should neg a girl at that particular moment or not, but as your
mind tries to recall exactly what the strategy dictates you do
next, remember to smile.
Second, make
eye contact. When we are preoccupied, it is easy to forget to
make eye contact with the target of our seduction. Although we
may be heightening our senses to pick up on non-verbal cues or
simply plotting how to direct a conversation, we cannot allow
our thought process to distract us from the very basic need to
make quality eye contact. Eye contact allows a woman to access
you as a real person and shows her that you are confident in yourself
and present in the moment. If you let eye contact slip, it can
only make seduction more difficult.
Third, speak
clearly. Although seduction is not the equivalent of a public
speaking course, it is necessary to speak clearly. Those who mumble
or quickly fumble through their words are perceived as insecure
and often as less than intelligent. No matter what you are saying,
say it clearly. Seduction techniques are, in large measure, premised
on your ability to verbally communicate. If your communication
is unclear, you will have a hard time maximizing the value of
your seduction strategy.
Consider
a man armed with the ultimate seduction strategy firmly in mind.
He knows just what to say and when to say it. The plan is a proven
winner and he knows that others who have followed it have had
tremendous success in landing beautiful women on a regular basis.
Now, imagine
this man approaches the prospect with a grim facial expression
and begins following the book perfectly. However, throughout the
process he fails to look the girl in the eyes regularly and she
has to occasionally ask him to repeat himself as he mumbles too
lightly to be heard over the surrounding noise.
Even though
this man may have followed the “book” to a tee and
conducted himself in perfect uniformity with the planned strategy,
he is still unlikely to emerge from the interaction with his prospect
in tow. In fact, he will probably fail to even get the girl’s
phone number.
You see,
although his mastery of advanced seduction techniques was strong,
his failure to remember the three most basic aspects of any seduction
doomed his effort to failure. The next time you decide to put
your learning to the test, it is important to remember everything
you have learned. A prerequisite to make those skills produce
results, however, is to also manage the basics correctly.
If you cannot
smile, make eye contact and speak clearly, no mastermind seducer’s
plan can save you. You simply must keep the basics in mind for
any technique to offer any real hope of landing the perfect woman.