Making
Sure You Can Use Humor as Part of Your Seduction Strategy
Everyone
thinks they have a good sense of humor.
If you were to poll the next ten strangers you met and
asked each of them whether or not they had a good sense of humor
and thought they were funny, every single one of them would probably
say “yes.” However, we
all know many of them would be dead wrong. Not everyone is funny. If they were, we would all be walking around
laughing every moment of the day, or at the very least smiling
happily. Some people simply are not funny. The problem
is that they don’t realize it.
Any
number of seduction experts will tell you that humor is a great
component to many successful seduction techniques.
By effectively using humor, you can disarm a woman and
get her to put her guard down.
Good use of humor can also separate you from the pack and
make you additionally noticeable and attractive.
Almost every seduction guru will tell you to make use of
your sense of humor as you attempt to hook up with beautiful women.
Unfortunately,
this approach can only work if you actually have a good sense
of humor. “Well, I have a great sense of humor,” you might
say. You could be right. Remember, however, that everyone believes this
about themselves—and that not all of us are right when assessing
just how funny we are.
There
are few things more painful than watching someone who thinks they
are funny but who is not. We
see them floundering in their efforts to get a laugh or a smile
and simply cannot believe they really think they have a chance.
We are so much funnier and could do so much better, right?
Maybe not. In order
to know whether or not the seduction techniques based on humor
will really work for us, we need to accurately ascertain whether
or not we are really funny.
Begin by asking close friends you can trust.
Do this only if you can resolve to accept their answer
without becoming upset, however.
You want the truth, after all.
Also reflect on past instances when you have attempted
to use humor to your advantage. Did things actually work out the way you wanted
them to? If so, can you
be certain your use of humor directly contributed to your success?
If
you learn that you might not be quite as funny as you think, don’t
be too worried. After all, most of us are not as comedic as
we tend to believe. Instead
of being upset, make an effort to improve your sense of humor. Read up on what makes things funny and find
out from others what it is about you, your delivery and attitude
that may detract from your humor abilities.
Spend some time watching others who do have a good sense
of humor—the kind of people who make you laugh.
Odds are that you will learn something.
You may just have to approach the idea of humor from a
different angle, or adjust your delivery of your one-liners.
Then, when you embark on a seduction mission that may make use
of humor, you can do so comfortable in the knowledge that your
chances for success have been improved considerably.
A
quality sense of humor can really add a significant dimension
to the seduction process. Women do find funny men hard to resist and perceive
a good sense of humor as evidence both of intelligence and the
ability to interact with others successfully.
Harnessing the power of humor can improve your seduction
talents immensely.
Before
trying humor-based techniques, however, make sure you really are
funny. Many men have given up on strategies that really
do attract beautiful women because they just didn’t see the results
they expected. In many
cases, the plan was not the problem—the issue was the execution.
This is particularly true of strategies that use humor. Placed in the hands of the right guy, these
methods can be devastating—women can be seduced quickly and easily. Used by someone who is not funny, the very same
techniques are destined for failure—and to become the butt of
the jokes the woman tells to her friends the next day.
Make sure you can use humor to your advantage, and you
will find much greater success in the field of seduction.